Be a Good Listener.

 Hello Everyone, here I am to talk something new positive stuff. 

Its good that everyone want to talk about some things. Some people want to talk about their feelings, about their business, loneliness, etc. But everybody has something to talk. All they need is someone to talk. 

So, Be a good listener. When you are with your friends, be a good listener. Give your opinions too but listen to all of them as well. Everyone deserve this respect to be heard by everyone. This Listening has a lot of benefits like it makes you feel more about others. In today's world, everybody is being selfish and think about themselves but this listening practice makes you more generous, which we really need in this era. I am a Millennial as well but I am aware of my duties of being human as well. 

In my Culture, they say - 

" DO AS MUCH HARDWORK YOU WANT TO DO, 

EARN AS MUCH MONEY YOU WANT TO EARN,

BUT DO IT WITH YOUR HEART AND DO IT WITH GOOD DEEDS"

In daily life, it happens to ladies that they listen to some random boy as some boy might be giving them attention and listens to them but please be careful as it is observed that it could be because of  LUST. It is not always like that. I am just saying that it could be possible. Now it comes to your sense of judgement, that whether he is doing it being a good person or just because of Lust. 

Moreover, Listening to everyone make you a good observer. Being a good observer means you get to know about everyone and you can learn about different people thinking styles. So, to believe or not, it's your opinion. I would say listening to stupid people could be beneficial as well because they can teach you the kindness of doing something for someone without expecting something from them in return. They can teach us how we can still be happy about life even if we are doing something right. 

Another great example of proving my thoughts could be listening to kids. We all know most of times, kids start talking about something, it doesn't make sense or no logic according to adulthood intellectual level. But if you are a busy person, crying inside to talk to someone for stress relief. Try talking to kids, Try having a conversation in their topics, in their language and at their level. By learning how they think and connect everything in a different way than we do, can make you laugh out loud. 

In Crux, Life is a like a Casino. We are here to make money but keeping us happy during that journey is an important part. Help everyone and Be kind.